Understanding Australia’s Under 16 Social Media Ban & What It Means for Children’s Online Safety
With the under 16 social media ban coming into effect tomorrow, most parents are feeling two things at once: relief and confusion.
Relief because it sounds like less social media equals safer kids.
Confusion because no one has explained what this means in the real world.
Here is the blunt truth. This ban will not stop kids from using social media. It will simply push them into parts of the internet where adults have no visibility.
Researchers at QUT’s Digital Media Research Centre have already warned that banning young people from mainstream social media is likely to push them into less known alternative platforms and digital spaces that are less familiar and quite possibly less safe for families[1].
Australian experts commenting on the ban have also pointed out that when access is restricted, many teenagers simply shift their behaviour into gaming platforms, messaging apps and other online spaces rather than disappearing from the internet [2][3].
We have seen this pattern before. The Pirate Bay, for example, has been blocked or filtered by internet providers in multiple countries and its founders were convicted in Sweden in 2009 [4][5].
Yet the site has survived repeated raids, domain seizures and shutdowns by switching to new domains, and a whole ecosystem of proxy and mirror sites has grown up around it so that lists of working Pirate Bay mirrors are still being updated years later [6].
Every time one version is blocked, others appear. The internet adapts quickly, and young people can use the same pathways. Kids are clever, connected and curious, and they will find new platforms within days.
The danger is that many of these new or fringe platforms will not have moderation, safety systems, education programs, reporting tools or community standards.
Major platforms like Meta have published detailed material explaining how they rely on a mix of AI systems and human reviewers to detect and remove harmful content at scale, including content that may be abusive, misleading or otherwise unsafe [7][8].
They do this because safety is complex and requires constant monitoring.
Most smaller or underground platforms do not have anything close to this level of safety infrastructure. And once a child shares something online, whether it is a photo, a video, a message sent in anger or a joke taken too far, it can live on for a very long time.
Organisations like UNICEF and Australia’s eSafety Commissioner warn that harmful images, videos and words can be copied, saved, screen recorded and reshared in ways that continue to cause distress long after the original post is deleted [9][10].
If parents are not given the right tools, this ban risks making kids more vulnerable, not less.
What Parents Need To Talk About With Their Kids
1. What “forever” really means online
Kids often think deleting a post means it disappears. Explain that once something is uploaded or shared, even in a private message or disappearing story, someone can save it or record it. It can resurface years later in the wrong hands or the wrong context.
2. The difference between private, personal and public content
Keep it simple.
- Private is for no one.
- Personal is for trusted friends or family.
- Public is for anyone.
Most online harm happens when personal content suddenly becomes public.
3. Peer pressure and digital dares
A huge amount of unsafe content is created because a child was dared, pressured or trying to fit in.
Teach them:
- You do not owe anyone a picture, video or message.
- If something feels uncomfortable, it is okay to stop.
- Real friends respect boundaries.
4. Screenshots, edits and deepfakes
Kids now need to understand how easily images can be altered. AI can change faces, clothing and backgrounds.
Tell them:
- Never send images they would not want manipulated.
- Never assume every image is real.
- Come to you immediately if someone threatens to edit a photo of them.
5. Identifying unsafe platforms
Teach children to spot red flags:
- Anonymous chat features
- No reporting or blocking tools
- No moderators mentioned anywhere
- No parental controls
- Apps that encourage VPN use or provide “secret” access
- Apps or sites with no clear company details or safety information
These are built for secrecy, not safety.
How To Protect Your Child In This New Digital Landscape
1. Keep communication open, not punitive
Kids hide behaviour when they are scared of losing everything. Make sure they know they can talk to you without automatic confiscation or punishment.
2. Have weekly check-ins
Keep it short and casual.
- What apps are people using at school at the moment.
- Have you seen anything weird or uncomfortable online this week.
- Have you heard of any new platforms or games everyone is joining.
You are not interrogating them. You are staying connected.
3. Explain consent in terms they understand
Consent applies to digital media too.
- You must ask before sharing someone else’s photo or video.
- You do not have to send anything, even if someone keeps asking.
- You can change your mind at any time.
4. Set boundaries around devices, not punishments
Healthy boundaries can include:
- Screens in shared spaces at home
- No phones behind closed bedroom doors
- Clear rules around who they can add or accept
These reduce risk without turning everything into a battle.
5. Show them how to report, block and get help
Sit with them in front of the actual apps they use.
- Show them where the block button is.
- Show them how to report a post or account.
- Make sure they know they always have at least one trusted adult they can talk to, preferably more than one.
What The Government Missed
The ban focuses on restricting access to big platforms. It does not address:
- Children shifting to unregulated platforms and digital spaces
- The reality that many kids will find ways around technical restrictions
- How fast new platforms and tools appear
- The permanence and sharability of digital content
- The lack of deep digital literacy education for both teens and parents
- The need for practical, ongoing conversations at home
Safety comes from education, skills and open communication, not from a rule on a piece of paper.
A Final Message For Parents
You cannot stop your child from being online. You can teach them to be safe, confident and aware in a digital world that moves faster than any legislation.
Start the conversation today. Keep it going tomorrow. Your child’s safety depends far more on knowledge and
connection than on bans.
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Supporting Families Beyond the Ban
The changes brought by the under 16 social media ban will affect not only children but entire households. Families will be the ones guiding young people through new online behaviours, unfamiliar platforms and situations that may feel confusing or unexpected.
While the steps in this article help explain the risks and the realities, many parents I’ve recently spoken to also want something simple they can keep at home as a daily reminder of how to stay safe online together.
So we created a simple, stick-it-on-your-fridge, guide.
Why We Made This Guide
Online safety works best when every family member feels supported, prepared and confident. The online world changes quickly, especially during times of major policy shifts, and it can be hard for both adults and young people to keep up. We created this guide to give families a practical resource they can rely on, something straightforward enough for children and teenagers to understand, but meaningful enough for parents and caregivers to use in real situations.
The guide offers shared language, clear steps and a sense of calm when something online feels worrying or uncertain. We encourage you to print it out, put it somewhere visible, like your fridge, as a reminder that online safety is something the whole household participates in together.
As a father, I believe this guide does more to protect my 9-year old daughter than the legislation ever could. It gives her understanding, confidence and support, which is what truly keeps children, like her, safe online. Much more so than simply banning platforms.
Download the Family Online Safety Guide (PDF)
What To Do If Something Goes Wrong Online
Even with good habits, mistakes can happen and things can go wrong. What matters most is how we respond together as adults and young people.
1. Tell someone immediately
If something feels wrong, unsafe or confusing, children and teenagers should speak to a trusted adult as soon as possible. The goal is not to punish them, but to understand what has happened and work through it together.
2. Do not delete anything yet
Keep messages, screenshots or posts so there is enough information to understand what happened and take the right steps. Even if something feels embarrassing, it is important not to remove anything until there is a clear plan of action. Keeping everything gives families, schools or support services the best chance of resolving the situation safely and calmly.
3. Change passwords and secure accounts
If there is any suspicion that an account has been accessed without permission, update passwords, enable two factor authentication and review recent activity. This helps prevent further damage or misuse.
4. Block and report harmful behaviour
Most major apps and platforms allow users to block accounts and report harmful content or behaviour. Using these tools can stop further contact, support the person who has been harmed and sometimes help protect others as well.
5. Take a break from the device
Strong emotions are normal when something has gone wrong online. It is okay to step away from screens, calm down and return to the situation when everyone feels more settled and supported.
6. Ask for extra help if needed
If the situation is serious, persistent or involves clear harm, it may be appropriate to contact the eSafety Commissioner, the school, police or another trusted authority. External support can make a significant difference, especially when families feel out of their depth.
No matter what has happened, the most important message for children and teenagers is that they are not alone and there is always a way forward when adults and young people work through it together.
References
- QUT Digital Media Research Centre, “Demystifying the teen social media ban” (2025).
- 9News and other coverage of Australia’s under 16 social media ban and likely behavioural shifts among teens.
- MoneyMag reporting on the Australian under 16 social media ban, expert reactions and likely impacts.
- “The Pirate Bay” – overview of history, blocking and continued operation via new domains and technical workarounds.
- “The Pirate Bay trial” – details of the 2009 Swedish conviction of Pirate Bay founders.
- Current lists of Pirate Bay proxy and mirror sites showing the ongoing existence of alternative access points.
- Meta materials describing the use of AI and automated systems to detect and remove harmful content.
- Meta Transparency Center and enforcement reports describing human review teams and automated enforcement at scale.
- UNICEF guidance on harmful online content and the ongoing effects of shared media on children and young people.
- Australian eSafety Commissioner research and resources on children’s exposure to online harms and persistent content.
About the Author
I am a father of a nine year old daughter and I work professionally in digital and social media every day. I have always strongly discouraged social media use in children and teenagers because I understand the risks and the speed at which online behaviour evolves.
While the intention behind Australia’s under 16 social media ban is understandable, the implications concern me. Removing children from mainstream platforms does not remove them from the internet. It pushes them into less supervised and less regulated digital spaces, often without the support or guidance they need.
This article has been written to give parents the practical information that the current policy does not provide, so families can make informed decisions and keep their children safe online.
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